Sinatra and Me: In the Wee Small Hours

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This intimate, revealing portrait of Frank Sinatrafrom the man closest to the famous singer during the last decade of his lifefeatures never-before-seen photos and new revelations about some of the most famous people of the past fifty years, including Jackie Kennedy, Marilyn Monroe, Sam Giancana, Madonna, and Bono. If you are a Frank fan, buy this book (Jimmy Kimmel).

More than a hundred books have been written about legendary crooner and actor Frank Sinatra. Every detail of his life seems to captivate: his career, his romantic relationships, his personality, his businesses, his style. But a hard-to-pin-down quality has always clung to hima certain elusiveness that emerges again and again in retrospective depictions. Until now.

From Sinatras closest confidant and an eventual member of his management team, Tony Oppedisano, comes an extraordinarily intimate look at the singing idol that offers new information on almost every page (The Wall Street Journal). Deep into the night, for more than two thousand nights, Frank and Tony would converseabout music, family, friends, great loves, achievements and successes, failures and disappointments, the lives theyd led, the lives they wished theyd led. In these full-disclosure conversations, Sinatra spoke of his close yet complex relationship with his father, his conflicts with record companies, his carousing in Vegas, his love affairs with some of the most beautiful women of his era, his triumphs on some of the worlds biggest stages, his complicated relationships with his talented children, and, most important, his dedication to his craft.

Toward the end, no one was closer to the singer than Oppedisano, who kept his own rooms at the Sinatra residences for many years, often brokered difficult conversations between family members, and held the superstar entertainers hand when he drew his last breath.

Frank Sinatra fans, pull up a chair and let longtime confidante and road manager Tony Oppedisano regale you with tales from the entertainers inner circle (Parade magazine)Sinatra and Me pulls back the curtain on a man whom history has, in many ways, gotten wrong.

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Theres new information on almost every pageFrank fans will find plenty to cheerA believable portrait of a towering 20th-century figure in the defiant December of his years.
Wall Street Journal
There are many books about Sinatra but few, if any, written by someone who spent as much time with him as the legend Tony O. If you are a Frank fan, buy this book.
Jimmy Kimmel
Frank Sinatra fans, pull up a chair and let longtime confidante and road manager Tony Oppedisano regale you with tales from the entertainers inner circle inSinatra and Me: In the Wee Small Hours. Enjoy intimate accounts of late-night drinking sessions, Las Vegas reveling, Rat Pack glory days, mob-tie truths and those infamous relationships with Ava Gardner, Mia Farrow, Marilyn Monroe and more.
Parade magazine
Tony Oppedisano enjoyed unrivaled access to the man many consider Americas greatest 20th-century entertainer [and] shares the tales with punch and panache.Late-in-life wisdom seeps through as Sinatra recounts regrets about leaving his first marriage, takes stock of who his true friends are and tries to keep his music career flourishing...Perhaps the most surprisingly interesting portion of the book may be Oppedisano sharing his own life story and details of first entering Sinatras orbit.Sinatra and Me may not set the record straight about every misconception of its title subject but not for lack of Oppedisano trying. That the results of such a quest prove so readable, human and sympathetic testifies to the writers powerful memory and singular life experiences.
Pittsburgh Post-Gazette
An unblinking yet affectionate portrait of the singer in the October, November, and December of his years, and should appeal to diehards and rubberneckers alike.
Airmail
An invaluable recordSinatra and Memay leave readers longing for a friend like Frank; they'd be equally lucky to have one like Oppedisano. This tribute by Sinatra's much-younger best friend is like an Ol' Blue Eyes tune: sparkling, warm and emotionally true.
Shelf Awareness
Oppedisano debuts with a remarkable look at the final years of one of the most influential musicians of the 20th century.This fascinating and intimate account stands out among the dozens of books written about the celebrated legend.
Publishers Weekly
A fond remembrance of a deep friendshipReveals a vulnerability in the Chairman of the Board that is often quite moving.
Booklist
RevealingA must-read for Sinatra fans, this lovingly written, sweetly devoted account may even solve some pop-culture mysteries.
Kirkus Reviews
"Utterly clear-eyed yet truly loving...Amatchless portrait of a flawed, brilliant manand of a great friendship. A gem of a book.
James Kaplan, bestselling author of Frank:The Voice and The Chairman
What a great book! Tony O. does here what many have tried to do without quite succeeding: hes made Frank Sinatra accessible.Certainly, this is one of the very best of the Sinatra books and, I daresay, maybe the only one the man himself would actually read!
J. Randy Taraborrelli,New York Timesbestselling author ofSinatra: Behind the Legend
Tony O. was Frank Sinatras go-to guy, and in this affectionate and intimate memoir, he writes about the wee small hours with the love and even awe that the great singer evoked. .Even veteran Frankophiles will enjoy the twice-told tales, the striking new ones, and the natural eloquence of heartfelt eulogy inSinatra and Me.
David Lehman, author ofSinatras Century: One Hundred Notes on the Man and His World
"Iknew and loved and dated and worshipped Frank Sinatrahe waslike no one elseand I consider myself a very contented survivor. This book was one of the best trips Ive ever had.Tony captures the real Frank.I think Ill be readingSinatra and Meover and over.
Angie Dickinson, star of more than 50 Hollywood films
The legend that is Frank Sinatra remains a fascinating topic. Tony O. had a deep and abiding friendship with Ol' Blue Eyes and an all-access pass to his life. We all are fortunate that he chose to share these intimate recollections with us.
Michael Bubl, four-time Grammy Award-winning recording artist
"Having a friendship like the one between Frank Sinatra and Tony O. was a true gift. Believe me, Tonywasthere in the 'wee small hours of the morning.'Sinatra and Meis a wonderful book."
Robert Wagner, star ofIt Takes a ThiefandHart to Hart
Literally, my entire life has been intimately intertwined with Americas beloved Rat Packwith my Uncle Frank as Chairman of the Board; my Dad, the King of Cool; and the amazing man I call Uncle Sammy.This book is definitely 'Dal Cuore'from the heart. Tony captures not just Frank but Franks entire world.Youre in for an authentic treat.
Deana Martin, actress and Billboard Top 40 recording artist
Frank Sinatra, never anything less than a riveting presence,was a man I was lucky enough to be around and get to knowbut Tony O. knew him as few men know each other.This is a deeply intimate book, and well worth the read.
Tony Danza, star ofTaxiandWhos the Boss
"If you knew Frank Sinatra you knew Tony Oppedisano. The love, loyalty, respect, and friendship Tony showed Frank was infinite, and perhaps most important, wasn't just directed to the artist and legend but to the human being."
Lorna Luft, actress, singer, andNew York Timesbestselling author ofMe and My Shadows
"I loved Tonys book. It's fun and paints such a vivid picture of the times that I felt I'd actually just spent a weekend in Palm Springs with Frankand still have a hangover."
George Schlatter, former producer of the Grammy Awards and ofRowan and Martin's Laugh-In

Author Bio

Tony Oppedisanoa.k.a. Tony Ois a former professional musician and singer who went on to become an award-winning producer, served as a member of Frank Sinatras management team, and also managed comedian Don Rickles.Tony was only twenty-one when he first met and befriended Frank Sinatra. Tony later became the singers best friend and road manager, a contributor to two of Sinatras platinum albums, and a producer of the documentaryTo Be Frank:Sinatra at 100.Tony grew up in Brooklyn, New York, and currently lives in Los Angeles.

Mary Jane Ross has collaborated on numerous bestselling memoirs, including books by Albert DeMeo, Ray Charles Robinson Jr., Nancy Mace, and Piper Laurie.