Everyday Madness: On Grief, Anger, Loss and Love
By (Author) Lisa Appignanesi
HarperCollins Publishers
Fourth Estate Ltd
18th October 2019
19th September 2019
United Kingdom
General
Non Fiction
Coping with / advice about death and bereavement
813.6
Paperback
272
Width 129mm, Height 198mm, Spine 18mm
200g
You will find all of life in this Deborah Levy
After the death of her partner of thirty-two years, Lisa Appignanesi was thrust into a state striated by rage and superstition in which sanity felt elusive. Then, too, the cultural and political moment seemed to collude with her condition: everywhere people were dislocated and angry.
In this electrifying and brave examination of an ordinary enough death and its aftermath, Everyday Madness uses all Lisa Appignanesis evocative and analytic powers to scrutinize her own and our societys experience of grieving. With searing honesty, lashed by humour, she navigates us onto the terrain of childhood, the way it forms our feelings of love and hate, and steers us towards a less tumultuous version of the everyday.
Appignanesi luminously conveys the wayward emotions that make bereavement a language that is hard to understand, yet speaks to us every day when we experience a great loss. You will find all of life in this rewarding, scholarly and entertaining conversation about freedom, Freud, fury, enduring love, and how mythic and modern families haunt each other Deborah Levy
Keen-eyed, unflinching in her honesty, Lisa Appignanesi carries us down into the depths through an inner landscape of unappeasable turmoil, as she moves towards knowledge of love and the serenity it brings. With piercing insight and many moments of intense poignancy, she illuminates the complexity and costs of a remarkable and passionate journey Marina Warner
Wonderful, moving, extraordinary. It is sui generis. I feel enormously privileged to have read it twice. Its structure is remarkable an enacting of the last two years. Bravo bravo Edmund de Waal
A ragged, stop-start quality, often feeling like a conversation, at times an argument, with the reader, and is all the more engaging for it Guardian
An investigation of a state that floats somewhere between diagnosed mental illness and daily life; she is her surveys principal case, but shes interested, too, in the historical moment whose anger and loss, she insists, can be understood as sharing a set of emotions with her own Observer
It is anger of the everyday sort that is currently being politicised. Feminists are fighting back against the way womens anger is typically caricatured and delegitimised, and celebrating the power of collective female anger as a way of flexing socially progressive muscle a brave and compelling book New Statesman
Everyday Madness is supple, powerful and remarkably solipsistic; Appignanesi meditates with great wisdom and fierce honesty on "the puzzle that the self perennially is" in a memoir that begins in opaqueness and ends in clarity' TLS
Lisa Appignanesi has been a university lecturer in European Studies and was Deputy Director of London's Institute of Contemporary Arts. Her works of non-fiction include Freud's Women' (with John Forrester), a biographical portrait of Simone de Beauvoir, and a history of cabaret. She has edited The Rushdie File' and a number of books on contemporary culture, as well as producing various films for television. Lisa Appignanesi lives in London with her two children.