All at Sea

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Shortlisted for the 2017 PEN Ackerley Prize

The thing to remember about this story is that every word is true. If I never told it to a soul, and this book did not exist, it would not cease to be true. I don't mind at all if you forget this.

The important thing is that I don't.'

On a hot still morning on a beautiful beach in Jamaica, Decca Aitkenhead's life changed for ever.

Her four-year-old boy was paddling peacefully at the water's edge when a wave pulled him out to sea. Her partner, Tony, swam out and saved their son's life then drowned before her eyes.

When Decca and Tony first met a decade earlier, they became the most improbable couple in London. She was an award-winning Guardian journalist, famous for interviewing leading politicians. He was a dreadlocked criminal with a history of drug-dealing and violence. No one thought the romance would last, but it did. Until the tide swept Tony away, plunging Decca into the dark chasm of random tragedy.

Exploring race and redemption, privilege and prejudice, ALL AT SEA is a remarkable story of love and loss, of how one couple changed each other's lives and of what a sudden death can do to the people who survive.

Reviews

If I read a sadder, truer, wiser chapter in a book this year I will count myself fortunate Aitkenheads loss was our gain The Times

An exemplary memoir However magnificent and powerful the book, you know it pales in comparison with the loss Sunday Times

This book is impossible to forget It reminds one that grief is about transformation, the loss of old moorings, a new permission to put the heart first- a sea change Observer

Astonishing. Aitkenhead has produced a work of art Evening Standard

An extraordinary memoir, a beautifully written account of life, love and what is left of both after tragedy Utterly heart-breaking but its also a brave and honest account of grief and its aftermath that will stay with you long after you finish the last page Daily Express

Finely observed, emotionally truthful and beautifully written, her memoir is testament to the extraordinary power of love that doesnt vanish when life of the beloved ends, but endures as long as memory itself Mail on Sunday

A story of absolute heartbreak, but also a story of unbelievable courage Davina McCall

An entrancing love story; a horrifying death story; a book about class, family, growing up, taking risks and learning how to be strong. Read it once, and it will be inside your head forever Andrew Marr

If you buy just one book this year, make it this one. I have never read anything like it and wished it would never end Jennifer Saunders

A brave book about emotional truth. It brought a tear to my eye, and will be deeply empowering for those who read it Tanya Byron

Anyone who has loved, lost or grieved that's all of us should read it. Alastair Campbell

A beautiful and painful guidebook through the taboo subject of death. Decca made me miss someone I've never met and, for today at least, savour those I love Russell Brand

A remarkable story of sudden tragedy and grief, of love and resilience Arianna Huffington

Beautiful Sunday Times

Author Bio

Decca Aitkenhead is a journalist and broadcaster. She studied Politics at Manchester University before moving to London to work for the Independent on Sunday, and then for the Guardian. While writing The Promised Land, she and her husband lived in Jamaica, but they have now returned to London. She writes columns for the Guardian and the London Evening Standard, and is a contributor to BBC Radio 4 and 5.