Bless the Birds: Living with Love in a Time of Dying

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Timely themes: Americans relationship with death has been radically altered by the COVID-19 pandemic, and will continue to be as baby boomers, forty percent of our national population, grow older and head into the end of their lives. Current issues: Time outside in nature helped many Americans get through the shelter-in-place orders during the COVID-19 crises; reconnecting with nature nearby will continue to be critical medicine as we adapt to a changed world, and to the quieter but no less profound crisis of climate change. Highly relatable experience:About 38% of people will be diagnosed with cancer at some point in their life. Nearly everyone in the world will be touched by cancer by adulthood. Award-winning author: The authors 12 previous books have won awards including ForeWord Book of the Year, Colorado Book Award, and Colorado Authors League Award. She was the 2018 Alice Dorrance Spiritual Writing Fellow at Mesa Refuge, and has also been awarded writing residencies at the Womens International Study Center in Santa Fe, and Colorado Art Ranch.

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2021 Sarton Book Awards: Memoir, Winner

Reading Bless the Birds left me awed and shaken. Tweit writes with the fascination of a scientist and the lucidity of a poet. In these pages, her heart swings open wide, opening the rest of ours with her.
Craig Childs, author of Virga & Bone

Bless the Birds is the book for our times. Its a splendid blend of landscapes, relationships, spiritualityfinding meaning in life framed by an awareness of deathand creative work. I have a dozen people I want to share this authentic, honest, hopeful story with. You will too. Its a treasure.
Jane Kirkpatrick, New York Times best-selling author of Something Worth Doing

There is so much grace in the pages of Bless the Birds. Susan Tweits fluid prose lays bare an exquisite honesty regarding the dearest and most difficult of human transitionsfrom life to death. She does not pretend the journey is easy or affect a posture of transcendent acceptance. Rather, she joins hands with her husband Richard in the face of his diagnosis as they explore together a complex and expansive sense of love, challenge, and transformation, and a shared passion for the wild earth. I will carry the wisdom found in this book with me always.
Lyanda Haupt, author of Mozarts Starling

I loved this book. I needed this book. I drank it in huge gulps. I shouted at the book, and I hugged it to my chest. Above all, I learned from this book: Courage comes only to those who are afraid. Grief comes only to those who love deeply. Birds come only to those who lift their eyes. Grace comes only to those who give themselves up for lost. Bless the Birds is a rare gift.
Kathleen Dean Moore, author of Earths Wild Music

Bless the Birds is spare and precise, and full of love and resilience. Its the story of two lovers taking a journey that none of us want to take, a journey toward parting. They walk it with eyes and hearts wide open, finding joy in their moments and showing just how much tenderness and grace are possible at lifes endingsso much love that the readers heart spills over with it just by accompanying them.
Priscilla Stuckey, author of Tamed By a Bear

Its such a ripe time for this book about how to meet fear, loss, and sorrow with courage and grace and, most importantly, love.
Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, author of Hush

Bless the Birds reminds us that dying is entwined with living and we can do both with our hearts outstretched. Tweit shares the deeply personal story of the path she and her late husband walked, illuminating the fear, hope, bewilderment, rage, astonishment, laughter, exhaustion, gratitude, and joy when we open ourselves to life and death and love. This book is a gift for medical, palliative care, and hospice professionals, as well as people navigating illness in their own lives.
Elizabeth Holman, PhD, palliative care psychologist

Anyone who has lived through the long and painful death of a loved one is tempted to write about it. The idea is to give deathand lifemeaning. Rarely do those accounts rise to the level of poetry. Tweits does. Well known for her essays, Tweit turns the story of her husband, sculptor Richard Cabe, into a moving tribute. ... Bless the Birds is a joyful account mixed with the agony of loss.
Denver Post

Author Bio

Susan J. Tweit is a plant biologist who began her career working in the wilderness studying wildfires,grizzly bear habitat and sagebrush ecosystems. She turned to writing when she realized she loved telling the stories in the data. She is an award-winning author of twelve books, including a previous memoir, Walking Nature Home, and has been published inmagazines and newspapers including Audubon,Popular Mechanics,the Denver Post, and theLos Angeles Times. Her essays and commentaries have been collected in numerous anthologies, and heard on regional public radio. She is cofounder of the Border Book Festival and Audubon Rockies Be A Habitat Hero Project, and an active member of Women Writing the West and Story Circle Network. Visit her online at www.susanjtweit.com.Tweit writes from the high desert outside Santa Fe, New Mexico, and a farm at the foot of high peaks near Paonia, Colorado, where deer and coyotes saunter through her garden and stars stud a dark night sky.