For a Good Time: Surviving Sex Work and Addiction to Become the Mother I Was Meant to Be

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Its 1953 in Southern California, Patty is five years old, and her mother hasnt been home in two days. A police officer eventually arrives and takes Patty and her brothers to juvenile halltheir mother has been drinking again.

Twenty-eight years later, Patty herself is an alcoholic mother to three children. Divorced and homeless, she soon realizes that she cant support her children with her job cleaning houses, so she accepts the offer of a man who works at the gas station: shell have sex with him for money.

For the next seventeen years, Patty lives a double life as a sex worker. Though she supports her family with the money she makes, she struggles to be the parent she wants to be, until she realizes she has become just like her own mother: an alcoholic who doesnt give her children what they need.

When Patty gets sober, her life begins to change. She finds healing through therapy, spirituality, community, and, most importantly, speaking the truth to her children. Powerful and insightful, Pattys story is proof that we all are capable of healing ourselvesand that forgiveness can transform our lives completely.

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Patty Tierney has a gift for sharing her life and the lessons she has learned as a woman, mother, and daughter. For those seeking to practice compassion, forgiveness, and healing of old childhood traumas, Patty shares her very personal journey that takes you to the darkest places, and then returns you to the light. Patty is an inspiration to any parent who wasnt always good enough and is still striving to be better. She isatestament to the idea that the truth will set you free.
Jamye Waxman, LMFT, MEd, marriage and family therapist, sex educator, and author

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Patty Tierney worked as a prostitute to support her three children for seventeen years. After getting sober at forty-six years old, her life began to change, and she eventually began a career in caregiving. In 2005 she started her first caregiving company, which she successfully ran for ten years before selling it and shifting her focus to being a private caregiver. Patty and her husband, John, together host retreats called Transform with the Tierneys, through which they provide a safe space for people to share their stories and practice self-love, acceptance, and forgiveness. For more about Transform, see www.transformwiththetierneys.com. Today, Pattys three adult children are thriving and successful, and she adores her three grandchildren. She and John live happily in Encino, California; they are best friends, and they love being together. When shes not caregiving, hosting Transform, or spending time with family, Patty keeps herself busy with her passion for writing. For more about what shes working on now, visit www.pattytierney.com.