Rock Needs River: A Memoir About a Very Open Adoption

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From a story first told in the popularNew York Timesparenting blog comes a funny, touching memoir about a mother who welcomes more than a new daughter into her home.

After two years of waiting to adopt-slogging through paperwork and bouncing between hope and despair-a miracle finally happened for Vanessa McGrady. Her sweet baby, Grace, was a dream come true. Then Vanessa made a highly uncommon gesture: when Grace's biological parents became homeless, Vanessa invited them to stay.

Without a blueprint for navigating the practical basics of an open adoption or any discussion of expectations or boundaries, the unusual living arrangement became a bottomless well of conflicting emotions and increasingly difficult decisions complicated by missed opportunities, regret, social chaos, and broken hearts.

Written with wit, candor, and compassion, Rock Needs River is, ultimately, Vanessa's love letter to her daughter, one that illuminates the universal need for connection and the heroine's journey to find her tribe.

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The love McGrady feels toward Grace, whom she has dedicated the book and her life to, is the sweet layer of frosting on top on a multilayered cake. An expressive and love-filled tale of adoption and of befriending the biological parents of the adopted child. Kirkus Reviews MovingMcGradys memoir is a touching and honest adoption story. Publishers Weekly McGrady chronicles her non-fairy-tale path to parenthood with uncommon candor. Washington Post McGradys adoption story is rare and important. The Atlantic [A] complicated, compelling ride. Bustle Vanessa McGrady opened her home to the birth parents of her infant daughter when the couple struggled with money problems and, eventually, homelessness. In the same spirit of generosity, she invites readers into her heart and mind. We ride the ups and downs with her as she endures the heartache of miscarriage, responds to difficulties within her own marriage, and tries to forge a balance between helping her daughters birth parents and maintaining the integrity of her own family. McGradys candor and courage are breathtaking! I devoured every word. Jo Robinson, author of Eating on the Wild Side

Author Bio

Writer Vanessa McGrady spends time thinking about feminist parenting, high-vibrational food, and badass ways to do things better. She often wonders why people arent more freaked out about plastic in the oceans. Whether in New York, the Pacific Northwest, or Glendale, California, she is grateful to call each place home. Shes lucky and profoundly grateful to be a mom to a magical sprite child named Grace. To learn more about Vanessa, visit www.vanessamcgrady.com.