Rurally Screwed: A Memoir of Losing Myself for Love

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Jessie Knadler moved away from her small town childhood in Montana to a career in magazines in NYC as soon as possible. Her life was filled with friends, fun and decent food but then on an assignment she met a cowboy named Jake and the two fell madly in love. Jessie decided to give up her city lifestyle and move to the country with Jake. Soon surrounded by chickens and farmers, Jessie initially feels she has lost her identity. In this witty and honest memoir she explores her new life, her love for her husband and how a city girl learns to survive in the country.

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A tale at once hilarious and touching.Richmond Times-Dispatch

A memoir of nitty-gritty adjustments, of the Herculean personal growth demanded with a committed partnershipA memoir with unexpected, unpretentiousand very funnyheft; the story of a young woman who drives herself so hard for a couple of decades that she neglects to notice who she is. Then, after an interlude spent raising chickens, canning, sewing her own clothes, attempting Bible study and overthinking almost everything about rural life, the young woman gets real.NPR.org

Rurally Screwed is really about trying to define ourselves, and how that experience can make us feel authentic and synthetic all at once. Knadler articulates her journey in a manner so self-deprecating and hilarious that it doesn't take long to realize she isn't ridiculing rural Virginia, shes analyzing her own place in it...She is braver than most writers would be about exposing the vulnerable underbelly of her new marriage, and about how close she came to throwing in the clogs. The story is at times very raw, and embarrassingly personal in a way that will feel familiar to many readers. Knadler risks a lot, even the wrath of people she could still potentially meet in the aisles of the Lexington Walmart. Though she probably felt as if she was gambling it all with Rurally Screwed, the result is a story so genuine and touching that she won it all backand then some.The Roanoke Times

"Jessie Knadler's story about leaving the glossy office buildings and late nights of Manhattan to take a chance on love and create a new life in rural Lexington, Virginia, sounds like something out of a movie. But as Rurally Screwed shows, the most unexpected life events and happiest endingsnot to mention the hottest cowboysdon't just appear on the silver screen. Jessie takes a lively, self-deprecating yet thoughtful approach to her particular fish-out-of-water tale. I laughed, winced and nodded my head in agreement more times than I can count. But most important, she shows that risks have their rewards, that it is possible to leave the worst of one's old life behind without abandoning the best of oneself."Anna Holmes, founder of Jezebel

Jessie Knadlers memoir, Rurally Screwedis more than a fast-paced ride through the rodeo scene of relationships from Manhattan to Montana, but an examination of American life, the things we take for granted and the things we ought to cherish. Reading about Knadlers search for inner peace helped this reader find some too.Siobhan Fallon, author of You Know When the Men Are Gone

Hilarious, romantic and real. Jessie Knadlers writing made me feel every single emotion of her journey from the big city to the deep countryonly I didnt have to kill a single chicken or ride an actual horse. Although I may have fallen in love with her husband a little bit...Lara Naaman, writer/producer, Good Morning America

At once brutally honest and over-the-top hilarious, Rurally Screwed is the most engaging and relatable book about marriage I've ever read. And I've read most of them. Knadler takes readers on a journey from her stalled life as a New York City single girl to the wilds of Virginia, where she settles down with a cowboy, eighty-some chickens and a cellar stocked with moonshine. Along the way, she learns there's nothing romantic about chopping firewood and nothing easy about being marriedbut that after the sweat dries, the rewards of both are pretty awesome. Anyone who is married, has ever been married or is considering one day getting married has to read this book.Paula Szuchman, coauthor of It's Not You, It's the Dishes

"This book is really a love story. Its about falling for an unexpected person, learning to love a new place, and when life gets tough, figuring out what the heart really wants. I started out laughing and ended with a lump in my throat. And because the tale is told with such humor and searing honesty, youll grow so attached to Jessie and Jake, youll be tempted to move off the grid with them.Amy Spencer, author of Bright Side Up

I found myself laughing out loudI also found myself feeling empathetic, understanding the heart-wrenching separation and frustrations that come with coupledomThis book was an inspiring and fun read. Its a book that all women can relate to, even if they arent leaving behind the big city for Green Acres. Jessie, as a character in the book and in real life, is a strong, witty, courageous and hilarious woman.Breathe

Most romantic comedies end at the declaration of love and never explore the happily ever after. Rurally Screwed entertains by continuing well past the I do and, best of all, this is a real-life romance, a memoir with a hilarious narratorRurally Screwed is also a hero's journey as Jessie navigates her relationship with various identitiesa child from Montana, a woman from New York, a wife in rural Virginia. Her searing wit and unflinching honesty is a pleasure to readFans of Ree Drummond's The Pioneer Woman will love Rurally Screwed, as will anyone who has fallen madly in love with his or her opposite.Book Club Classics

[A] classic pastoral narrativeWhat makes it compelling is the manner in which [Jessie] struggles with her identity, as defined almost entirely by external markers. Her journey takes her from a place where the only identity she knows is the one on the outside to a place where she learns to inhabit a more genuine self from the inside. Perhaps it's simply a story of growing up, but in a world in which the Internet has only amplified the ferocity of the fashion cycles, the urgency of lifestyle choices, one can't help feeling for her as she finds it so very difficult to define herself in a world she can't quite recognize.Bookslut

"Quirky, laugh-out-loud funny, poignant, passionate...A great love story that carries on past'I Do' and 'Happily Ever After.'"San Francisco Book Review

Author Bio

Jessie Knadler is a writer whose articles and stories have appeared in publications ranging from the Wall Street Journal to Glamour. She is the coauthor of the preserving cookbook Tart and Sweet. Her blog has been featured in Newsweek and French Elle. She lives with her husband, her daughter, and a bunch of chickens in Virginia.