Slayers, Every One of Us: How One Girl in All the World Showed Us How to Hold On
By (Author) Kristin Russo
By (author) Jenny Owen Youngs
St Martin's Press
St Martin's Press
15th July 2025
15th May 2025
United States
General
Non Fiction
Television
Film, television, radio genres: Science fiction, fantasy and horror
Film, television, radio and performing arts: companion works
306.76630922
Hardback
256
Width 135mm, Height 208mm
300g
A memoir reflecting on heartbreak, perseverance, and life lessons learned from Buffy the Vampire Slayer, from the hosts of the hit podcast Buffering the Vampire Slayer. Kristin and Jenny's marriage started with an ultimatum: to further their relationship, Kristin must watch Jenny's favorite show, Buffy the Vampire Slayer. With the terms set, they began a journey that has led them through seven seasons of the beloved genre show, a podcast rewatching the series with their newly minted listenership of "Scoobies," unexpected success, and a divorce. Through it all, their love for Buffy and their commitment to their community held them together against the odds. Slayers, Every One of Us is the story of how two queer women navigated divorce on a very public level and managed to stay in each other's lives through it all. While chock full of Buffy-related content (and Buffering!) for true fans, this is ultimately a memoir of queer love and chosen family. It's a heartwarming story for anyone who's experienced lost love, and a roadmap for staying close with your ex.
Praise for Slayers, Every One of Us and Jenny Owen Youngs and Kristin Russo:
"[A[ love letter to [Buffy] and to podcasters Russo and Youngs' complicated relationship....Whether readers are on their latest rewatch or want to dip their toes back into the Buffyverse, this book will help them do just that." --Booklist
"At turns inspiring, hilarious, and devastating (in the best way), Slayers, Every One of Us underlines the truth that the hardest thing to do in this world may be to live in it, but found family and love of story can help ensure that you *will* be slaying - no matter what. The warmth and goofy wit that Russo and Youngs bring to everything they do is the perfect antidote for anyone who feels like cookie dough that's not *quite* done baking." --Joanna Robinson, cultural critic and podcaster at The Ringer
"A heartfelt story of how one couple's mutual obsession allowed them to remain in each other's lives, this tender, funny, and totally charming tale of love, divorce, and podcasting is as much an ode to queer community as it is to a certain vampire slayer." --Gabrielle Korn, author of Yours for the Taking and Everybody (Else) Is Perfect
"Recently I found myself enchanted by a book about a podcast I didn't listen to, that recapped a TV show I'd never watched; a testament to how good Kristin Russo and Jenny Owen Youngs' memoir Slayers, Every One Of Us is. This once-married duo cut to the quick in their deeply personal memoir recounting the creation of their massively successful podcast, Buffering the Vampire Slayer, which recaps the '90s teen drama Buffy the Vampire Slayer. The memoir's subplot--Youngs and Russo's meeting, falling in love, subsequent breakup and divorce, while they taped seven seasons of their wildly popular podcast--was like a dagger to the heart. A spellbinding read." --Tegan Quin, award-winning musician and New York Times bestselling author
"As the mom of a die-hard Buffy fan, I picked this book up hoping to learn more about why and how Buffy the Vampire Slayer appeals to people of a certain age. I learned that, and more. This is an in-depth look at the ups and downs of the authors' relationship, as well as a glimpse into podcasting in its infancy. Slayers, Every One of Us describes how a community of like-minded individuals can be built and fostered, and can evolve into deep, caring relationships." Camille Kovach, Completely Booked (Murrysville, PA)
"[This] savvy, creative show, hosted by Jenny Owen Youngs, a musician, and Kristin Russo, an L.G.B.T.Q. activist, is special...Both Owen Youngs and Russo are queer women, and they approach "Buffering the Vampire Slayer" with an eye for marginalized viewpoints and systemic injustice. That often makes for frank discussions about the aspects of the series that haven't aged well -- particularly given recent accusations of misogyny against its creator, Joss Whedon -- but that never takes away from the hosts' clear love for "Buffy" as a flawed but powerful feminist text." --The New York Times
KRISTIN RUSSO is a producer, speaker, and consultant with a focus on LGBTQ issues. She has spoken at hundreds of universities nationwide including Harvard, Stanford, and NYU and has worked with large-scale companies such as Bloomberg on allyship and inclusion. She was the co-creator of LGBTQ organizations Everyone Is Gay & My Kid Is Gay and co-author of This is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids. In 2016, Kristin took her production work to the podcasting space and began working as Executive Producer and co-host of the now critically-acclaimed pop culture podcast, Buffering the Vampire Slayer. Her work with queer communities has been featured by The New York Times, The Boston Globe, NPR, Time Magazine, Newsweek, The Ellen Show, and many other outlets. JENNY OWEN YOUNGS is a touring musician, songwriter, and podcaster. Her music has been heard on television shows including Bojack Horseman, Grey's Anatomy, and Weeds, to name a few. She's also co-written songs recorded by Pitbull, Donna Missal, Ingrid Michaelson, and other artists, perhaps most notably the Panic! at the Disco quintuple-platinum hit "High Hopes." She has performed hundreds of concerts across the US, UK, and Europe, and livestreams weekly to a highly engaged community via Twitch. In addition to her pod duties co-hosting Buffering the Vampire Slayer (and writing an original song to accompany every single episode), Jenny also co-hosts another television recap podcast, Veronica Mars Investigations.