Something Like Beautiful

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When asha bandele fell in love with a prisoner serving a twenty-to-life sentence and became pregnant with his daughter, she had reason to hope they would live together as a family. But soon after Nisa was born, ashas dreams were shattered. Her husband, Rashid, was denied parole and told hed be deported to his native Guyana once released. Suddenly a statistica black single mother in New York Cityasha kept it together on the outside while falling apart on the inside. Despite having a great job at a high-profile magazine and a beautiful daughter whom she adored, asha began drinking and smoking and stumbled into a relationship that opened new woundsdescending into depression when her life should have been filled with love and joy.

A lyrical, astonishingly honest memoir, Something Like Beautiful is not only ashas story but also the story of thousands of women who struggle daily with little help and much against them.

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"Once again asha bandele has a poignant story to share in Something Like Beautiful. It is the love that comes through that makes this such a compelling tale." -- Nikki Giovanni

"asha bandele tells the truth. Courageous, profound, and achingly beautiful, asha delivers her art, soul, and passion once more. I could read her work for days, get lost in it, find myself in it. The world is a better place because asha bandele has transformed pain into something like beautiful and proves that you can, too." -- Rebecca Walker, author of Baby Love

"Like her powerful and poetic writing in Essence, asha bandele's Something Like Beautiful takes straight aim for the heart. Having been a single mother myself, I connected intimately with her astonishing insight into the complexities and challenges of parenting solo. Her honesty is cathartic and healing. This is a book not just to read, but to live with, ponder and treasure." -- Susan Taylor, Essence Editor-in-Chief Emeritus and Founder, National Cares Mentoring Movement

"We should all be blessed with the intellect and insight bandele brings to motherhood--the struggles, the joys, the fears, and the hope. Indeed, this is a fine portrait of what it means to be a single mom--a mom, period--in America." -- Denene Millner, Reality Check columnist, Parenting magazine

Praise for THE PRISONER'S WIFE: "[bandele's] writing soars with emotion. And the reader's emotions soar as well, not because of shared experience but because her highly polished and skillful writing makes one feel her pain and joy." -- Booklist (starred review)

Praise for THE PRISONER'S WIFE: "Haunting, intense, emotional... mesmerizing and disconcerting, offering insights into why caged birds sing." -- Kirkus Reviews

Praise for THE PRISONER'S WIFE: "asha bandele tells the story of a love that flourishes in the constricted space between freedom and captivity. This is a powerul and provocative book-- everyone should read it." -- Angela Y. Davis

Praise for THE PRISONER'S WIFE: "The Prisoner's Wife echoes Edwidge Danticat's Farming of the Bones in the urgency in which it reminds us of the possibility of love even amidst the ruins. This is a terrifying, heart-breaking and, ultimately, important book." -- Junot Diaz

Author Bio

A former features editor for Essence magazine, asha bandele is the author of two collections of poems, the award-wining memoir The Prisoner"s Wife, and the novel Daughter. She lives in Brooklyn with her daughter.