Walking on Eggshells: Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents
By (Author) Jane Isay
Broadway Books (A Division of Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group Inc)
Broadway Books (A Division of Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group Inc)
15th March 2008
United States
Paperback
256
Width 132mm, Height 203mm, Spine 13mm
193g
The perfect gift for both parents and their adult children-"a wonderfully wise and constructive intergenerational guide" that will keep you connected to the people you love most. "Read it and learn."-New York Times bestselling author Judith Viorst We raise our children to be independent and lead fulfilling lives, but when they finally do, staying close becomes more complicated than ever. And for every bewildered mother who wonders why her children don't call, there is a frustrated son or daughter who just wants to be treated like a grownup.Now, renowned author and editor Jane Isay delivers real-life wisdom and advice on how to stay together without falling apart. Using extensive interviews with people from ages twenty-five to seventy, Isay shows that we're far from alone in our struggles to make this new, adult relationship work. She offers up groundbreaking insights and deeply moving stories that will inspire those in even the toughest situations. Isay's warmth and wit shine through on every page as she charts an invaluable course through the confusing, and often painful, interactions parents and children can face. Walking on Eggshells is the much-needed road map that will keep you connected to the people you love most.
"Jane Isay gives us a hope chest of hard-earned wisdom and aha moments, and a mirror in which we can safely examine ourselves and our families."
Rachel Simmons, author of Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls
From her own loving heart and from richly revealing interviews with parents and adult children, Jane Isay has fashioned a wonderfully wise and constructive intergenerational guide. Read it and learn!
Judith Viorst, author of I'm Too Young to Be Seventy and Other Delusions
A gently told, achingly honest book about the search for love and acceptance that aging parents and their adult children bring to each other and the tragic misunderstandings that get in their way and break their hearts.
Judith S. Wallerstein, Ph.D., author of What About the Kids Raising Children Before, During, and After Divorce
Jane Isay's warm, intelligent, reassuringvoice shines through her illuminating stories about the delicate, lifelong bond between parents and theirgrown children.Anyone who has ever been in a parent-child kafuffleabout rules, traditions, money, control, or anything else will findwisdom and encouragement in this lovely book.
Carol Tavris, Ph.D.,coauthor of Mistakes Were Made (but not by me)
"The brilliance of Walking on Eggshells lies in Isay's uncanny ability to keep our love and good intentions in focus so that we all parents and adult childrencan untangle the unhealthy knots in our relationships before they cause harm."
Ira Byock, M.D., author of Dying Well
With Isay's sage advice, we can make life with our adult children calmer, closer and more enjoyable. This is a great read for every parent who has ever, in discussing their adult children, used the phrase 'walking on eggshells.'
Mary Pipher, author of Reviving Ophelia
JANE ISAY has been an editor for over forty years. She discovered Mary Pipher's Reviving Ophelia, commissioned Patricia O'Connor's bestselling Woe Is I and Rachel Simmons' s Odd Girl Out, and edited such nonfiction classics as Praying for Sheetrock and Friday Night Lights. She's written several books of her own, including Secrets and Lies, Mom Still Likes You Best, and Walking on Eggshells. She lives in New York City, not too far from her children and grandchildren.