Big Reactors: Practical Strategies for Parenting a Highly Sensitive Child
By (Author) Claire Lerner
Bloomsbury Publishing PLC
Bloomsbury Academic
30th October 2025
United Kingdom
General
Non Fiction
Emotions and emotional intelligence
Hardback
240
Width 140mm, Height 216mm
An invaluable, practical guide that shows parents how to help their highly sensitive child learn to manage their big emotions and thrive.
Highly sensitive children (HSCs) process and react to experiences more deeply than other children. They are sometimes called spirited, deeply feeling, or big reactors. These children are amazingfierce and feisty, persistent and passionate, insightful and empatheticbut are also prone to more intense and frequent meltdowns. Parenting a big reactor can be challenging and exhausting, but it doesnt have to be.
In Big Reactors: Practical Strategies for Parenting Highly Sensitive Children, child development specialist Claire Lerner helps parents develop the tools to support their HSCs strengths while also showing them how to cope with everyday challenges. She details the key traits of HSCs, describes the science behind the traits, and shows how parents and other caregivers can help them thrive. Through detailed case descriptions from her decades of work in the trenches, Lerner reveals the process she guides parents through to understand the root cause of their childs challenges and come up with sensitive, effective strategies that work in real life, not just in theory.
Importantly, Big Reactors shows parents how they can be supportive and loving while also setting the limits their fierce and feisty kids need to develop self-regulation and build resilience. This approach helps parents bring out the best in their passionate, creative, wonderful, sensitive child and creates more peace and joy for the entire family.
Claire Lerner, MSW, is a licensed clinical social worker and child development specialist. She has been a practicing clinician for more than 35 years, provides training and consultation to preschools and pediatric residents at Childrens National Medical Center, and served as the Director of Parenting Resources at ZERO TO THREE for 18 years. She is the author of Why Is My Child In Charge A Roadmap to Ending Power Struggles, Increasing Cooperation, and Finding Joy in Parenting Young Children. Claire is the mother of two very spirited children and lives in Bethany Beach, Delaware. Learn more at lernerchilddevelopment.com.