Have Him at Hello: Confessions from 1,000 Guys About What Makes Them Fall in Love . . . Or Never Call Back

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Now in paperback, the revolutionary dating book that goes straight to the source to explain why he's just not that into you. There's a reason the media has dubbed matchmaker Rachel Greenwald as "The Wife Maker." Yes, she's responsible for over 750 marriages, but more importantly, she has solved perhaps the biggest dating mystery of all time- when you finally meet Mr. Right (or even Mr. Potential), what really compels him to call back (or not) after a date Armed with her Harvard MBA, Rachel embarked on a fascinating ten-year research project to decipher this puzzle. In Have Him at Hello, she applies her business savvy to the dating world by conducting in-depth "exit interviews" with 1,000 single men, asking why they called back one woman, but not another. By refusing to accept the post-date brush-off like "There wasn't any chemistry..." or the excited, but equally vague evening recap, "We hit it off!" Rachel extracted unabashedly honest and raw details. It turns out there are clear, tangible, consistent reasons why marriage-minded men either fall for you or disappear. The surprising "Top 5 Date Makers" and "Top 10 Date Breakers" revealed in this book can actually change your fate when Mr. Right finally comes along. Rachel's goal isn't for you to pretend to be someone you're not, but rather to keep the ball in your court. By using her innovative research and tips as a guide, more men will ask to see you again ; then you can do the selecting, rather than wondering if they'll call. Because information is power, this book will make your first hello a lasting one.

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One of Cosmopolitan Magazine'sSummer's4 Hottest Beach Books (2009)

Rachel is my kind of gutsy girl: all the kick of cheddar on rye, minus any trace of baloney. Within two weeks of trying Rachels strategies, I . . . am now juggling so many suitors that Ive started a man-agement diary.
O, The Oprah Magazine

Greenwald is the hottest thing to hit the dating scene since Sex and the City!
Observer (London)

Advocating that you change his perception instead of your personality, Greenwalds vast study and witty analysis of mens behavior is nearly a science in its fine points, and truly a contemporary approach to the speedily evolving game of dating.... Loud and clear, Greenwald offers the no-frills, tough-love advice that every single woman doesnt want but often needs to hear.
King Features (synd.)

This book is brilliant! I really love Rachel Greenwald s approach. This is a must-read guide to help single women find the right mate, even for women who have lots of guys pursuing them.
Tim Sullivan, former CEO, Match.com

Greenwald . . . has become a national sensation. Her advice is uncommonly blunt.
San Jose Mercury News

Dating diva Rachel Greenwald [delivers] an espresso shot of practical advice.
Rocky Mountain News

Rachel Greenwald . . . has taught thousands of mature women how to meet Mr. Right.
People

Rachel Greenwald is the Wife Maker.
Denver Post

Rachels approach is clear, systematic, and motivating.
New York Daily News

Author Bio

RACHEL GREENWALD is a professional dating coach, matchmaker, and the international bestselling author of Find a Husband After 35- Using What I Learned at Harvard Business School. She lives in Denver, Colorado, with her husband and three children.