How to Get Over a Breakup: An Ancient Guide to Moving On
By (Author) Ovid
Translated with commentary by Michael Fontaine
Princeton University Press
Princeton University Press
1st October 2024
United States
General
Non Fiction
Ancient Greek and Roman philosophy
Social and political philosophy
Ethics and moral philosophy
871.01
Hardback
184
Width 114mm, Height 171mm
A modern translation of the ancient Roman poet Ovids Remedies of Lovea witty and irreverent work about how to fall out of love
Breakups are the worst. On one scale devised by psychiatrists, only a spouses death was ranked as more stressful than a marital split. Is there any treatment for a breakup The ancient Roman poet Ovid thought so. Having become famous for teaching the art of seduction in The Art of Love, he then wrote Remedies for Love (Remedia Amoris), which presents thirty-eight frank and witty strategies for coping with unrequited love, falling out of love, ending a relationship, and healing a broken heart. How to Get Over a Breakup presents an unabashedly modern prose translation of Ovids lighthearted and provocative work, complete with a lively introduction and the original Latin on facing pages.
Ovids advicewhich he illustrates with ingenious interpretations of classical mythologyranges from the practical, psychologically astute, and profound, to the ironic, deliberately offensive, and bizarre. Some advice is conventionalsuch as staying busy, not spending time alone, and avoiding places associated with an ex. Some is off-color, such as having sex until youre sick of it. And some, for modern readers, is, simply and delightfully, weirdsuch as becoming a lawyer and not eating arugula.
But far more often, How to Get Over a Breakup reveals an Ovid whose advicegood or bad, entertaining or outrageouscan sound startlingly modern.
Michael Fontaine is professor of classics at Cornell University. His books include three other volumes in the Ancient Wisdom for Modern Readers series, How to Grieve, How to Tell a Joke, and How to Drink (all Princeton).