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Boundaries
By (Author) Anne Katherine
Simon & Schuster
Touchstone
7th July 2000
19th February 2001
United States
General
Non Fiction
158.2
Paperback
144
Width 140mm, Height 214mm, Spine 15mm
202g
Are Your Boundaries Being Violated
Boundaries separate us from others physically and emotionally. In fact, they are essential for our mental and physical health as well as for developing healthy relationships. Yet every day, people's boundaries are violated by friends, family, or coworkers. Despite the importance of personal boundaries many people are unaware of how or when these very important lines are crossed.
Which of the following are boundary violations
Esther tells Betty a secret Mary told her.
Your therapist invites you to go for coffee.
Your boss wants to know the details of your personal life.
Your boss asks you if you'd like a hug.
Mom tells little Debbie about her troubles with Dad.
Your new neighbor pats you on the bottom as he turns away.
Your mother makes a comment about your being overweight.
All but one of the above incidents violate boundaries (your boss asks you if you'd like a hug). In Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin, Anne Katherine explains what healthy boundaries are, how to recognize if your personal boundaries are being violated, and what you can do to protect yourself.
For anyone who has walked away from a conversation, a meeting, or a visit with others feeling violated and not understanding why, this is a book that can help.
Anne Katherine, now retired from her fortyyears as a psychotherapist, isa screenwriter, ghost writer, and National Park ranger. She is the author of numerous titles, includingBoundaries,Where to Draw the Line,The Yesterday Doctor, andStalking Yosemite.