Self-Esteem Without Selfishness: Increasing Our Capacity for Love

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We' ve all been exhorted to cultivate self-esteem and nurture a positive self-image. That sounds appealing. But we also know that God calls us to humility. And many well-intentioned Christians have it in the back of their minds that being humble means living their lives in a haze of discouragement, anxiety, and preoccupation with their own sinfulness. After all, the only alternative our culture seems to offer is a vacuous " I' m OK, you' re OK" relativism: the false peace that this world gives. We know that can' t be right.

So how can we attain the peace God wants for us if we' re mired in self-contempt How can we spread Christian joy if we don' t have any ourselves

In Self-Esteem Without Selfishness, Fr. Michel Esparza leads the way out of this conundrum. A lively sense of a Father who looks on us with delight and unconditional love, together with a fearless acceptance of our own wretchedness, is the key. Fr. Esparza teaches us how to cultivate that " humble self-esteem" which neither strays from the truth about the person nor fosters discouragement at our failures. Bringing together the best of classic spiritual wisdom and the insights of contemporary psychology, he distinguishes between self-esteem in the shallow, pop-psychology sense and the rightly ordered self-love that is anything but self-centered.

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Fr. Michel Esparza received his medical degree from the Catholic University of Louvaine (Belgium). Since 1997 he has been a Doctor of Philosophy Summa cum laude of the Pontifical University of the Holy Cross in Rome. He was ordained a priest in 1986 and exercises his ministry in Logrono, Spain, where he gives spiritual guidance to persons of all ages and walks of life. His publications include books and articles on Christian spirituality, the life and thought of Edith Stein, and the relationship between humility and self-esteem.