The Wisdom Whisperers: Golden Guides to a Long Life of Grit, Grace, and Laughter

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From The New York Times bestselling co-author of Secrets of the Baby Whisperer, comes this poignant, hilarious, and deeply insightfulexploration of how to make the most of life's possibilities-at any age.

In this deeply personal and heartwarming book, acclaimed journalist Melinda Blau confronts the stereotypes surrounding life's later chapters,drawing from unexpectedfriendships with the remarkable women she affectionately dubs "my old ladies." Through intimate storytelling and candid reflections, Blau peels back layers of societal judgment to uncover the hard-earned wisdom and resilience that come with the unfolding of years.

From her relationship with Henrietta, a vibrant nonagenarian, Blau discovers that age is less a number and more the unexpected twists and turns of a life fully lived. Zelda, ever the free spirit, shows that the sparkle of youthful passion can persist well into later years-she's nailing tennis serves even in her 90s. And then there's Anne, a Holocaust survivor who proves that at 98, it's still not too late to pen your life story. Yet, Blau's book isn't simply a compilation of friendship tales. It's a wake-up call that encourages us to build meaningful connections across different phases of life. These bonds are mutually enriching, offering us valuable insights and a depth of understanding that is impossibleto obtainfrom our contemporaries.

At its heart, Wisdom Whisperers is about the boundless opportunities that unfold when we dare to look beyond age as a limiting factor.

Reviews

"Its humbling to see words of joy and aging in the same paragraph and feel my heart weep for joy. Melinda Blaus book reminds me I always believed I was one day going to die. I just didnt believe it would happen in this lifetime I wish this book a long life and treasured impact on the lives of oh so many." * Leah Komaiko, author of Be the Story Youre Here to Tell and Am I Old Yet *
"The Wisdom Whisperers is a tonic for the soul. And best of all, the powerful ingredients of Melinda Blaus life-affirming elixir: good older friends who fill our lives and fuel our spiritsare within everyone's grasp." * Sheila Weller, author Girls Like Us: Carole King, Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon & the Journey of a Generation *
"In a disconnected world, Melinda offers a simple yet rarely considered solution: make friendships with much-older people. This book artfully suggests these unlikely bonds could cure generational loneliness, bridge cultural divides and maybe even make the world a kinder place. Given many of us will be living in this world longer than ever, it's hard to imagine a more urgently needed message." * Rohit Bhargava, bestselling author and founder of Non-Obvious Company *
"Melinda Blau proposes a refreshing and virtuous perspective on growing upsomething that I might have erroneously called growing old before I read The Wisdom Whisperers. In a world of extremes that often affords an unbalanced importance to youth, Melinda proposes an antidote and a convincing path towards opportunities for health and happiness by sharing the wisdom that agingand engagingaffords us. This book serves as a valuable treasure map, leading us along a trail abundant with riches but easily accessible. As the Baby Whisperer established a framework for nurturing my children, The Wisdom Whisperers is lucid and profound insight into a form of self-care through connection and friendship as we navigate the aging process. Melindas personal and intimate approach resonates with significance an affirmation of life!" * Daniel Rose, Michelin-star chef, Le Coucou, NYC, La Bourse et la Vie, Paris *
"A gorgeous exploration of the power of relationships and how a lifetime of seeking wisdom through the generations can enrich our own experience. Blaus book shares its wisdom with a deftness and style that is comfortable, authentic,and meaningful. Read this book. Meet these women. It is worth the ride." * Jeff Hamaoui, Co-Founder, Modern Elder Academy *
"A visionary perspective on adult friendship between young-old and old-old friends.Blaus warm, engaging stories treat readers to insights about deeply personal and meaningful relationships. I wish I could visit with these grandfriends and bask in their energy, enthusiasm, encouragement, and inspiration!" * Rosemary Blieszner, PhD., Alumni Distinguished Professor Emerita of Human Development and Family Science, Virginia Tech *
"Ms.Blausays everything around us shouts that old is BAD.' True. And pernicious. We livedownto the expectation that creates. Ms.Blauwith her collection of stories about amazingly upbeat and happy old ladiesoffers us a fine antidote." * Chris Crowley, New York Times bestselling coauthor of the Younger Next Year books *
"People expect the worst in old age;MelindaBlaubrings us the best. As a master storyteller,Blaudraws on the voices of her old ladies to evoke the triumph of late life and lives well-lived.We are all growing older, and this book provides the inspiration to do it well." * Karen Fingerman, PhD, Professor of Human Development & Family Sciences and Director, Texas Aging & Longevity Consortium *
"MelindaBlau's The Wisdom Whisperersunlocks the secrets to a fulfilling life of resilience, grace, and laughter. Through poignant stories about her friendships with women in the last phase of their lives she shares timeless wisdom and inspires readers to embrace life's challenges with grit and humor." * Ellen Langer, Ph.D, author of The Mindful Body: Thinking our way to chronic health. *
Its humbling to see words of joy and aging in the same paragraph and feel my heart weep for joy. Melinda Blaus book reminds me I always believed I was one day going to die. I just didnt believe it would happen in this lifetime I wish this book a long life and treasured impact on the lives of oh so many.
Leah Komaiko, author of Be the Story Youre Here to Tell and Am I Old Yet

The Wisdom Whisperersis a tonic for the soul. And best of all, the powerful ingredients of Melinda Blaus life-affirming elixir: good older friends who fill our lives and fuel our spiritsare within everyone's grasp.
Sheila Weller, author Girls Like Us: Carole King, Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon & the Journey of a Generation

In a disconnected world, Melinda offers a simple yet rarely considered solution: make friendships with much-older people. This book artfully suggests these unlikely bonds could cure generational loneliness, bridge cultural divides and maybe even make the world a kinder place. Given many of us will be living in this world longer than ever, it's hard to imagine a more urgently needed message.
Rohit Bhargava, bestselling author and founder of Non-Obvious Company

Melinda Blau proposes a refreshing and virtuous perspective on growing upsomething that I might have erroneously called growing old before I readThe Wisdom Whisperers. In a world of extremes that often affords an unbalanced importance to youth, Melinda proposes an antidote and a convincing path towards opportunities for health and happiness by sharing the wisdom that agingand engagingaffords us. This book serves as a valuable treasure map, leading us along a trail abundant with riches but easily accessible. As the Baby Whisperer established a framework for nurturing my children,The Wisdom Whisperersis lucid and profound insight into a form of self-care through connection and friendship as we navigate the aging process. Melindas personal and intimate approach resonates with significance an affirmation of life!
Daniel Rose, Michelin-star chef, Le Coucou, NYC, La Bourse et la Vie, Paris

A gorgeous exploration of the power of relationships and how a lifetime of seeking wisdom through the generations can enrich our own experience. Blaus book shares its wisdom with a deftness and style that is comfortable, authentic, and meaningful. Read this book. Meet these women. It is worth the ride.
Jeff Hamaoui, Co-Founder, Modern Elder Academy

A visionary perspective on adult friendship between young-old and old-old friends. Blaus warm, engaging stories treat readers to insights about deeply personal and meaningful relationships. I wish I could visit with these grandfriends and bask in their energy, enthusiasm, encouragement, and inspiration!
Rosemary Blieszner, PhD., Alumni Distinguished Professor Emerita of Human Development and Family Science, Virginia Tech

Ms. Blau says everything around us shouts that old is BAD.' True. And pernicious. We livedownto the expectation that creates. Ms. Blauwith her collection of stories about amazingly upbeat and happy old ladiesoffers us a fine antidote.
Chris Crowley, New York Times bestselling coauthor of the Younger Next Year books

People expect the worst in old age; Melinda Blau brings us the best. As a master storyteller, Blau draws on the voices of her old ladies to evoke the triumph of late life and lives well-lived. We are all growing older, and this book provides the inspiration to do it well.
Karen Fingerman, PhD, Professor of Human Development & Family Sciences and Director, Texas Aging & Longevity Consortium

Melinda Blau'sThe Wisdom Whisperersunlocks the secrets to a fulfilling life of resilience, grace, and laughter. Through poignant stories about her friendships with women in the last phase of their lives she shares timeless wisdom and inspires readers to embrace life's challenges with grit and humor.
Ellen Langer, Ph.D, author of The Mindful Body: Thinking Our Way to Chronic Health

They show us the path that lies ahead, if we ourselves are fortunate enough to grow old, and how to deal with the process of aging without letting it crush the human spirit. * Jewish Book Council *

Author Bio

Melinda Blau, author of more than four hundred articles and fifteen books, has spent a lifetime researching and writing about the importance of relationships. Our more intimate bonds are covered in her New York Times bestseller, Secrets of the Baby Whisperer, its two sequels, and Family Whispering, the book that inspired Blau's Huffington Post advice column. Blau has been interviewed numerous times on NPR and has appeared on Oprah, Good Morning America, CBS news, the Hallmark Channel, and dozens of other talk shows and podcasts. She has also won multiple awards and commendations for her writing, including those from The American Society of Journalists (Author of the Year), the Jewish Book Council, the Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, the American Psychological Association, Children's Rights Council, and American Association of Applied and Preventive Psychology. Her ongoing podcast, Crow's Feet: Life As We Age is dedicated to changing the conversation about getting older. She lives in Paris and New York City.