Ready for Air: A Journey through Premature Motherhood

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For Kate Hopper, pregnancy is downright unpleasant. She is tired and heavy and worried, and she wants her wine and caffeine back. But then, at a routine checkup, her doctor frowns at her chart and says, "I'm worried about a couple of things"--and unpleasant suddenly seems like paradise. What follows is a harrowing, poignant, and occasionally hysterical journey through premature motherhood, from the starting point of "leaking a little protein" to the early delivery of her tiny daughter because of severe preeclampsia and the beginning of a new chapter of frightful, lifelong love.

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"Kate Hoppers Ready for Air came to me at a moment in life when I needed her unabashed, beautiful description of this unmarked breathless territory: a birth plan gone awry. Hopper does not simply chronicle her experience as a new mother; she stakes a claim with her edgy and wise renderings of a woman admitting every limitation, from money to energy to health to hope. By sharing on the page what cannot be said aloud, Hoppers gorgeous words make room for more real women in the nursery." Sonya Huber, author of Cover Me: A Health Insurance Memoir and Opa Nobody

"Kate Hoppers raw, hopeful memoir is all paradox and ambiguity. Which is exactly how it is to become a parent: time stands still and gallops off; the world telescopes into microcosm and flings itself open; aching uncertainty meets unprecedented fortitude. Hopper takes us on an epic journey with her tiny babya stunning, breathless journey that shines with sincerityand youll be so grateful that you came."Catherine Newman, author of Waiting for Birdy

"Hopper bravely explores what happens when we expect joy and instead are handed traumatic challenge, and she does so with a fresh, piercing, and, at times, humorous voice. I cant imagine a parent who wouldnt relate to this compelling story of a child nearly slipping away."Debra Gwartney, author of Live Through This

"There is no writer I'd rather follow this journey with than Kate Hopper. Her storytelling skills are stunning. You will be rooting for her and her new family all the way."Hope Edelman, author of Motherless Daughters

After severe preeclampsia derails Kate Hoppers birth plan, the author confronts her fears of preemie parenthood with brazen honesty and an occasional fitting expletive. Her memoir, a testament to the delights and uncertainties of motherhood, reads like a novel, though you wont forget for a second that her story is true. Pregnancy & Newborn

[Hopper] is a multifaceted narrator whose complex reactions to the relentless challenges of her daughters premature birth are raw, uncensored, unapologetic, and unladylike. . . . Ready for Air [is] a story that bucks the traditional narrative while offering women a model of what it means to be a mother and be wholly, incorrigibly yourself. Literary Mama

Hoppers memoir can be seen as a comfort to some and an explanation for others, but for her it is proof of her own strength as she writes, As long as I have words, Ill be strong enough. [An] emotional, informative memoir. Star Tribune

Ready for Air looks unflinchingly at the psychological realities of learning to be a parent when other people are in a charge of a baby that cant come home. MinnPost

This [is a] beautiful, brave book. [Hoppers] story is sure to be a crucial one for parents of premature babies, but its also a book for anyone who has ever had her life go a bit askew. As Kate writes in her memoir, I followed the rules, I did what I was told, and it didnt matter. Parenting, after all, ends up being about learning how little you can control things. Mutha Magazine

Kate writes honestly, sometimes shockingly about her journey. The good, where she finds hope and encouragement along the way. And the bad, her life threatening illness with preeclampsia, the vomit, the heartbreaking pain, and the fear. She bravely tells it all with raw emotion. HuffPost Parents

Ready for Air is an urgent memoir that plumbs the depths of the narrators interior as she grapples with the premature birth of her daughter and with her own identity as mother. It is a book of truths that pulls back the curtain on a rarely talked about experiencepreeclampsia and premature birthand strikes a universal truth about what it means to be female in todays world. Writing Womens Lives

Author Bio

Kate Hopper teaches writing online and at the Loft Literary Center in Minneapolis, where she lives with her husband and two daughters. She holds an MFA from the University of Minnesota. She is the author of Use Your Words: A Writing Guide for Mothers and an editor at Literary Mama. For more information about her writing and classes, visit http://www.katehopper.com.