I See You Made An Effort: Compliments, Indignities and Survival Stories from the Edge of 50

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Actor and humourist Annabelle Gurwitch returns with this New York Times bestseller, a wickedly funny book of essays about the indignities faced by femmes d'un certain !ge. Whether she is falling in lust at the Genius Bar, coping with her best friend's assisted suicide or navigating the extensive and treacherously expensive, anti-aging offerings at the beauty counter, Gurwitch confronts middle age with candour, wit and a healthy dose of self-deprecation. Scorchingly honest, surreally and riotously funny, this is the ultimate coming-of (middle) age story.

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**A New York Times bestseller**

[A] rollicking collection of essays detailing the hazards encountered when a woman approaches 50..Gurwitch tackles all of it all with aplomb. Her witty writing allows for deft exploration of even the most sensitive and intimate subjects while still finding the humor in her situationThese essays contain a devilish good dose of fun.Publishers Weekly

A seriously funny collection of essays about teetering over the edge of 50Gurwitch is squarely in Nora Ephron territory.NPR.com

Annabelle Gurwitch is a funny woman.At the center of the book is a serious question: How are we supposed to age She convincingly argues that there is no longer a template.Judith Newman, The New York Times

Growing older may not be a picnic, but Annabelle packs her literary basket with riotous turns in I See You Made an Effort, her very funny, keen observations on middle ageHumor and sarcasm may serve as the driving force behind each of these essays, but profound insight into the absurdities of modern middle age ultimately infuses Gurwitch's smart, searing wit.Shelf Awareness (starred)

Whatever you do, do not mistake I See You Made an Effort as some kind of chick-lit book, because Annabelle Gurwitchs essay collection about middle age is far from it. Rather, its a spot-on series of reflections on women in their 40s and 50s the things they endure in the name of vanity and how society dictates so many of those things.But with each essay, or section, before she drags us down too far, she comes back with wit and another honest look at aging. with a certain sense of humor and humility about getting older and learning to live with it.Amanda St. Armand, St. Louis Post-Dispatch

Gurwitch confronts ageing the way we all shouldwith a healthy dose of hilarious self-deprecation.Mrs. Robinson Magazine

Whatever you do, do not mistake I See You Made an Effort as some kind of chick-lit book, because Annabelle Gurwitchs essay collection about middle age is far from it. Rather, its a spot-on series of reflections on women in their 40s and 50s the things they endure in the name of vanity and how society dictates so many of those things.with a certain sense of humor and humility about getting older and learning to live with it.Amanda St. Amand, St. Louis Post-Dispatch

[Annabelle Gurwitchs] unflinching and wickedly funny coming-of-middle-age story confronts the inevitable grit and glory of reaching the autumn of one's life.Amanda Montell, Time Out LA

Annabelle Gurwitch takes us on a tour of the cruelest American punishmentfemale middle ageand along the way manages to highlight the existential questions that haunt every woman turning 50. Read, if you dare, I See You Made an Effort, and you will exit laughing at this rich display of Vintage Annabelle.Caitlin Flanagan, author of Girl Land and Goodbye to All

The stories in Annabelle Gurwitch's book are unexpected, imaginative and herobservationsjust plain cracked me up. It's so great it should be required reading for everyone between the ages of 40 and death.Scratch thateven after death it's a must-read.Bill Maher

In this heartfelt and hilarious book, Annabelle Gurwitch infuses her razor-sharp wit with uncommon vulnerability and grace. Gurwitch bravely shines a light into the darkest corners of her soul and somehow you still come away laughing.You will feel like you are curled up on her couch, sharing a glass of wine and doing that rare and wonderful thing: connecting.Jillian Lauren, author of the New York Times bestselling Some Girls

I See You Made an Effort is so funny, humble, and nutty that you'll wish Annabelle Gurwitch lived next door. I laughed and commiserated with all the indignities of getting a wee bit older in a youth-obsessed world. I teared up at her on-going frustrations with her teenager, which mirror my own. I enjoyed her open hostility and deep love toward her husband, which also (don't tell anyone) mirrors my own. After reading this book, you won't feel alone in your secret thoughts anymore.And you'll laugh really hardthe frosting on the cake!Julia Sweeney, author of If Its Not One Thing, Its Your Mother

Smart, hilarious, and deeply moving, I See You Made an Effort captures the highs (few) and lows (more than a few) of not just turning fifty, but turning fiftyin our time.From having work done, to mothering a mortified teenage son, to revealing the truth about married sex, Gurwitch lays bare the harsh reality of hitting the half-century mark in a way that keeps you simultaneously laughing and turning pages.Cathi Hanauer, author of Gone and editor of The Bitch in the House

Hooray for Annabelle Gurwitch, whose funny and clear-eyed book proves that the best way to face aging is with copiousamounts of laughter. Peals not peels!Henry Alford, author of Would It Kill You to Stop Doing That

Annabelle Gurwitch proves that fifty is the new funny! I See You Made an Effort is a hilarious romp through mid-life's ups and downs, sags and droops, younger men and rompers and the voices of our mothers.Lisa Bloom, author of Think and Swagger

AnnabelleGurwitch was always one of my favorite actresses, and now she's become one of my favorite writers. Her riff on living at the intersection of feminism and Feministing stayed with me. With as much heart as social commentary, I See You Made an Effort is ultimately not about aging out of anythingit's about aging into a bigger and betterversion of yourself than your younger self ever imagined.Jill Soloway, creator of Transparent and I Love Dick, director, producer of Greys Anatomy and Six Feet Under, and author of Tiny Ladies in Shiny Pants

Annabelle Gurwitch is the child prodigy of the literature on aging. At the youthful age of fifty, when most of us are stealthily burning our AARP magazines so the neighbors don't find them in the recycling, she has figured out how to make the humiliations of aging hilarious. The only downside of this book is that it is bound to deepen your laugh lines.Barbara Ehrenreich, New York Times bestselling author of Nickel and Dimed

Annabelle Gurwitchs I See You Made An Effort is a little like going to get a mammogram with Lucille Ball.Jeanne Darst, author of Fiction Ruined My Family

Annabelle Gurwitch stares into the maw of middle age and makes you laugh, cringe, hoot and holler. She turns fifty into a battle cry and a hallelujah.Felicity Huffman

Whip smart and Ephron-funny, I See You Made an Effort isbeautifully written and tender-hearted. It's a love letter in your pocket for the inevitable journey that lies ahead.Jane Kaczmarek

Author Bio

Annabelle Gurwitch is an actress and author of You SayTomato, I Say Shut Up, a self-hurt marital memoir co-written withher husband, Jeff Kahn, now a theatrical play in its third nationaltour; and Fired! Tales of the Canned, Canceled, Downsized & Dismissed. Her Fired! documentary premiered as a Showtime Comedy Special and played film festivals around the world.Gurwitch gained a loyal comedicfollowing during her numerous years co-hostingthe cult favorite, Dinner &a Movie; her acting credits include Dexter, Boston Legal, Seinfeld, Melvin Goes to Dinner, The Shaggy Dog andNot Necessarily The News on HBO. Most recently, she starred in the adaptation of Grace Paley's A Coney Island Christmas by Pulitzer Prize winning playwright Donald Margulies at The Geffen Playhouse. Live appearances include New York Comedy Festival, 92nd St Y, Upright Citizens Brigade and story salons in both New York and Los Angeles. She has served as a regular commentator on NPR andahumorist for TheNation.com. Her writing has appeared in More,Marie Claire, Men's Health, Los Angeles Times and elsewhere.Gurwitch is apassionateenvironmentalist, a reluctant atheist, and lives withher husband and son in Los Angeles.