Tender Paws: How Science-Based Parenting Can Transform Our Relationship with Dogs

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Tender Paws takes a deep dive into the practical benefits of applying therapeutic parenting best practices to dogs in our care.

Finalist in the Animals/Pets/Nature category of the IAN Book of the Year Awards

When Wendy Lyons Sunshine got her first puppyabandoned behind a gas station, struggling with worms and anemiashe was in over her head. As puppy training guides failed to help her with the out-of-control, traumatized bundle of teeth and claws rescue pup, she turned to her work helping world-class child development experts. Could strategies for raising happy, well-adjusted kids transfer to a puppy

As it turns out, yes, they can! From the first try, parenting wisdom transformed Sunshines relationship with her challenging little one. Soon enough, Sunshines view of her puppy shifted from one of adversity to one of compassion and understanding, and she was able to bring patience and therapeutic concepts to meet her dogs needs. When Sunshine reached out to experts, they affirmed that science-based principles used with at-risk children align well with best practices of holistic, positive, and progressive dog handling. Exploring parallels between human and canine research, attachment styles, history of trauma, parenting styles, and her own inner child proved a mindful path for pet parenting.

Far from a standard dog training manual, Tender Paws explicitly applies parenting wisdom and best practices used with special needs kids to a cross-section of scenarios, from recognizing developmental trauma and unmet core needs, to making decisions about appropriate equipment, to responding to difficult behavior, to understanding the parenting style from which we approach our dogs.

Sunshine empowers you and your dog by offering:

• A synthesis of the fields of child development, attachment, trauma, sensory integration, neurobiology, learning, animal behavior, and ethology.
• A problem-solving framework that makes dog training decisions clearer and behavior frustrations easier to resolve.
• Parenting wisdom to help your dog move beyond trauma and into wellness.

Borrowing the principles of parenting for dogs feels obvious to some people: instinctive and ordinary and inevitable. But thats not true for everyone, especially those of us who had a less than ideal childhood and bear the scars of early harm, loss, trauma, or deprivation. Tender Paws provides an interdisciplinary, comprehensive, evidence-based guide for readers who want to honor the needs ofand improve outcomes forpuppies and dogs they care about.

Reviews

"Entertaining guide to dog training, based on parenting principles."

BookLife Reviews
"An articulate, highly informative, and enjoyable puppy-parenting primer."

Kirkus Reviews
"This is a thorough guide that will be most helpful to patrons who need help training difficult dogs. It includes a good deal of background information and theory along with its practical suggestions."

Library Journal
"An invaluable and thoroughly 'user friendly' instructional reference and 'how to' guide for anyone who has (or would like to have) a canine companion. Exceptionally well organized and presented, informed and informative, and ideal for non-specialist general readers with an interest in the subject, "Tender Paws: How Science-Based Parenting Can Transform Our Relationship with Dogs" isespecially and unreservedly recommended for personal, professional, community, and college/university library Dog Training & Animal/Pet Care collections."

Midwest Book Review
"Wendy's insights for adopting scientific best parenting practices for our family dogs provide unique and welcome contributions to the pet dog industry and dog loving culture. Her interdisciplinary approach to our relationships with dogs, as domesticated animals who remain genetic and circumstantial lifelong dependents on us humans as our pets, is elemental to the evolution of our collective understandings and practices as professionals and families. Wendy helps us to see our dogs as the sentient, emotional, intuitive, social species that they areone who has shared a love story with our own species over thousands of years and so become intimately intertwined with our own families as a result. This book capitalizes on the author's exceptional ability to guide parents in the critical elements of providing the necessary security that children require to show up in the world as their best selves, in order to help dog families to do the same. A powerful, well-researched, and important common-sense book for every dog lover. Highly recommend.

Kim Brophey, CDBC, CPDT-KA, author of Meet Your Dog: The Game-Changing Guide to Understanding Your Dog's Behavior
Tender Paws will be especially helpful for people who are getting new puppies or adopting traumatized rescue dogs. This book offers lots of positive, gentle methods for working effectively with dogs.

Temple Grandin, author of Animals Make us Human and Visual Thinking
"I love this book! Not only will it help transform the relationship the reader has with their dog but it has the potential to change how they relate to other humans and even with themselves. This is no ordinary training manual! Tender Paws gives an insight into the importance of understanding the individuals' lived experience, with a heavy focus on safety (physical and emotional) and the importance of fostering secure social attachments. We are seeing a much-needed move away from compliance-based approaches to ones that seek to put the individual dogs care and support needs front and centre. By doing this, the book will encourage the reader to give their dogs the best gift of alla voice! I highly recommend this book, and I know dogs everywhere will too. "

Andrew Hale, founder of Dog Centred Care
Im so glad Wendy Sunshinea best-selling child development authorsuddenly began to wonder about dogs. In her new book Tender Paws, she pulls off something extraordinary: an exploration into parenting and dog-raising techniques that is both wonderfully readable and fully grounded in well-cited science. The author focused her considerable research skills on the topic, and dozens of poignant case studies and examples of hard-won wisdom shared by thoughtful fellow travelers (including some famous names!) really give Tender Paws its powerful emotional punch. Im so grateful this book now exists!

Kathy Callahan, author of Welcoming Your Puppy from Planet Dog and 101 Rescue Puppies

Author Bio

Award-winning journalist Wendy Lyons Sunshine writes about the human-animal connection for PsychologyToday.com and is content coordinator at Positively.com. She co-authored Raising the Challenging Child and The Connected Child, a bestseller recommended by child welfare organizations and adoption agencies. Wendy is FDM certified in L.E.G.S. Applied Ethology Family Dog Mediation and volunteers at her local animal shelter.