An Extraordinary Silence: The Emergence of a Deeply Disturbed Child

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A child specialist describes his unconventional techniques, both professional and personal, to draw out a severly introverted, speechless nine-year-old boy who had not been reached by other therapists or even his family. The boy had built an elaborate fortress against a world that had declared him incapable of learning, of communicating, of feeling. As the specialist realized that the family was so distressed in relating with their son that they were unable to continue living with him, he sought alternative arrangements. Meanwhile, the most important work with this emotionally abandoned boy was to convince him of his basic worth and capacity, and to show him that his choices could make a difference for himself even in the face of inevitable frustration, denial, and rejection. Mr. Cipolloni has written the story of his work with Sean to illustrate how our society has a fundamental disregard for people, particularly children; he maintains that it is a society that dismisses those it cannot utilize and leaves us increasingly incapable of forming deep, focused interpersonal relationships.

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.,."Written by a child specialist, this book should be read by everyone--not only those in the "helping" professions....It squarely fits into the great tradition of clinical cases from Freud to Thomas Ogden; its portrait of family madness is an equal to those of Jules Henry. It is more about the depths of the human condition than about therapist-patient-family-institutional relationships....This book stands out today as a candle in a vast darkness: It is about presence, not technique, when as a civilization we are so absent from each other with our abundance of technique. The book is a monument to the voice of heart's reasons, to the utter hope and to the limitation of what a single person can do--and to what needs to be done. (Recommended for) all levels."-Choice
...Written by a child specialist, this book should be read by everyone--not only those in the "helping" professions....It squarely fits into the great tradition of clinical cases from Freud to Thomas Ogden; its portrait of family madness is an equal to those of Jules Henry. It is more about the depths of the human condition than about therapist-patient-family-institutional relationships....This book stands out today as a candle in a vast darkness: It is about presence, not technique, when as a civilization we are so absent from each other with our abundance of technique. The book is a monument to the voice of heart's reasons, to the utter hope and to the limitation of what a single person can do--and to what needs to be done. (Recommended for) all levels.-Choice
..."Written by a child specialist, this book should be read by everyone--not only those in the "helping" professions....It squarely fits into the great tradition of clinical cases from Freud to Thomas Ogden; its portrait of family madness is an equal to those of Jules Henry. It is more about the depths of the human condition than about therapist-patient-family-institutional relationships....This book stands out today as a candle in a vast darkness: It is about presence, not technique, when as a civilization we are so absent from each other with our abundance of technique. The book is a monument to the voice of heart's reasons, to the utter hope and to the limitation of what a single person can do--and to what needs to be done. (Recommended for) all levels."-Choice

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DAVID C. CIPOLLONI is a Child Specialist who has worked in Florida hospitals, its university system, and public schools. He now consults independently to child care agencies and preschool programs.