Not All Twins Are Alike: Psychological Profiles of Twinship
By (Author) Barbara Klein
Bloomsbury Publishing PLC
Praeger Publishers Inc
28th February 2003
United States
General
Non Fiction
155.444
Hardback
160
Width 156mm, Height 235mm
397g
Even twins are unique. Most people idealize twins, fantasizing a close, perpetually loving relationship. Yet Klein, herself an identical twin, demonstrates that twins have complicated and intense relationships that range from over-identification or excessive closeness to profound estrangement and conflict. Most twins who are raised as individuals deal with the significant emotional pain of separation in adolescence or young adulthood, yet as mature adults can come to love and respect each other as individuals. As Klein makes clear, the parenting that twins receive as infants and young children affects the relationships that they have with one another and with the world they choose to function in. Because parenting is a critical determinant of psychological well-being, it should be treated as a serious but manageable challenge.
"The twin patterns and the conclusions that [Klein] delineates and then supports through case histories are informative, fascinating, illuminating. . . . [This book] will help you to understand what's underneath the . . . surface similarities and differences in the twin patterns whom she studied to reveal the deeper emotional and intellectual issues that twins have to confront and make peace with."-Muriel Kessler, L.C.S.W., Bc.D.
Barbara Schave Klein is a clinical psychologist in private practice.