How to be Sad: Everything Ive learned about getting happier, by being sad, better

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We live in an age when reality TV shows climax in a tearful finale. But feeling sad genuinely sad is still taboo. Yet, sadness happens to us all, sometimes in heartbreakingly awful ways. If we dont know how to be sad, it can be isolating for those experiencing it and baffling for those trying to help others through dark times.
Today, most of us know intellectually that sad is normal. But were not always brilliant at allowing for it, in practice. Sadness is going to happen, so we might as well know how to do it right. And its time to start facing our problems and talking about them. Positive psychology may have become more accepted in mainstream culture, but rates of depression have continued to rise.

Were trying so hard to be happy. But studies show that we could all benefit from learning the art of sadness and how to handle it, well.

We cannot avoid sadness so we might as well learn to handle it. Helen Russell, while researching two previous books on happiness, found that today most of us are terrified of sadness. Many of us are so phobic to averse to negative emotions that we dont recognise them.

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'So brilliantly researched and written with great energy. And boy, did it make me think I must have turned down 50 pages to come back to later!' Pandora Sykes

This is such an important subject and we would all be better off if we absorbedHelens robust research and kind advice and allowed ourselves to be sad Cathy Rentzenbrink

'So brilliant, so heart warming, so extraordinary, so vulnerable and uplifting wonderful. Should be compulsory reading for everyone' Helen Thorn

'Helen Russell is back with another cracker of a book exploring how our relationship with sadness affects our happiness' Psychologies

In any human life there are going to be periods of unhappiness. That is part of the human experience. Learning how to be sad is a natural first step in how to be happier Meik Wiking, CEO, The Happiness Research Institute

I didn't think I wanted to read this book until I read it. Then I couldn't stop. An absolutely gorgeous and insightful and intelligent and necessary book Hollie McNish

A very persuasive account of how accepting sadness as a key part of our human experience can lead to more fulfilment and ultimately more happiness. Full of moving personal insight and brilliant research. This book reframes feeling sadAnna Jones

Helen brings an entirely unique combination of research, interviews, transparency, and story-telling to every book she writes. Thank you, from all of us JoshuaBecker, founder of Becoming Minimalist

Author Bio

Helen Russell is a hugely well-connected, well-respected journalist, and author of the highly successful The Year of Living Danishly (53k TCM). As How to be Sad explores, happiness and unhappiness aren't always mutually exclusive, and we can all get happier - by learning how to be sad, better.