Just Kidding: Using Humor Effectively

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For professional comedians, their primary goal is to make people laugh. For everyone else humor can be the envelope in which another message is sent and therefore will be received with pleasure. This bookis designed precisely to help you make your own efforts at humor more effective in achieving the primary goals of your interaction: to solidify friendships, preserve a marriage, obtain employment, close sales, conduct therapy, defuse conflict, or simply enjoy life more. Humor is a quality nearly all of us claim in ourselves and one which we seek and highly value in others.We love a sense of humor in our dates and mates, our children, and everyone with whom we have social contacts.When humor making is successful, we are drawn closer to other people and share a bonding emotional experience.We enjoy life more and our troubles seem to lessen instantly. There are many proven ways to enhance our senses of humor in ourselves and even our children. Humor making can be taught and developed to a very high level, thus increasing our chances for social and even economic success. Just Kidding: Using Humor Effectively is for adults who enjoy humor and who would like to be funnier. It includes definitions of funniness and examples of both helpful and harmful humor. It describes the relevant comedic and psychological rules for making humor effective. The book points out the danger signs for offensive humor and how to make the decision to say it or stuff it. Examples of successful and unsuccessful humor from comedians to politicians are used throughout to illustrate the many varieties of humor and how context and audience make a difference. Finally, a variety of fun exercises are offered to build the skills for effective humor making.

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If you want to get more laughter in your life (and who doesnt) then this book is for you.Not only does the author provide a book that is filled with sound suggestions for improvingyour humor skills, but he also makes sure they are memorable by peppering them withenjoyable lighthearted and laughable examples. Just Kidding is a must read for anyonewanting to expand their sense of humorand Im not kidding. -- Allen Klein, author of The Healing Power of Humor, and, Learning to Laugh When You Feel Like Crying
Good news: Research shows that humor can be trained. Louis Franzinis`s latest book Just Kidding: Using Humor Effectively is entertaining to read and based on research; it will help amateurs who want to incorporate more humor into their daily lives more successfully. -- Willibald Ruch, Ph.D., president of the International Society for Humor Studies, professor, Department of Psychology, University of Zurich
We can start at any time in life to improve our sense of humor. Lou Franzini is a funny person, a funny man, a funny father, a funny friend and a funny psychologist, which you will understand from reading his advice about using humor effectively. Here he blends just the right amount of analysis for the left side of our brains with humor for the right side of our brains, cautions for the grown-up side of us, silliness for the kid in us, and encouragement to risk being more in humor for our souls. -- Steve Wilson, psychologist, rigologist, president of World Laughter Tour, director of National Humor Month (April)
"Whether you're in the boardroom or the bedroom, Just Kidding is a must read. Lou Franzini combines his expertise and his wit to show us that humor can truly be life-changing. Entertaining yet practical, Just Kidding is a book that you will not be able to put down (really--I tried), and is destined to become a classic in our field." -- Karyn Buxman, RN, MSN, CSP, CPAE, past president Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor; publisher/author, What's So Funny About... series; and publisher, Journal of Nursing Jocularity
Louis Franzini has written a useful self-help book for...Americans who wish to attain a greater mastery of the act of being humorous in an everyday social setting....Franzinis book...[is] designed to help its readers make their own efforts at humour more effective in achieving the primary goals of their interaction...and it should prove useful to its readers. * Israel Journal of Humor Studies *

Author Bio

Louis R. Franzini, Ph.D., is Emeritus Professor of Psychology, San Diego State University and a licensed psychologist in California and Florida. He has published over 75 articles, chapters, and books in the scientific and professional literature of psychology. He is the senior co-author of two books: Eccentric and Bizarre Behaviors and Convention Survival Techniques: Practical Strategies for Getting the Most Out of Your Professional Associations Meetings. His third book Kids Who Laugh: How to Develop Your Childs Sense of Humor won a Bronze Medal in Foreword magazines competition for parenting books. He has also published in outlets such asAmerican Way, American Health, Todays Manager, and the San Diego Union-Tribune. Dr. Franzini is a member of the interdisciplinary International Society for Humor Studies and is an active speaker and member of the Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor. He has published humor research in the journal Humor: International Journal of Humor Research and serves as an ad hoc reviewer for that and other journals and book publishers. Dr. Franzini is an award winning speaker and is Past-President of Laughmasters, which at the time was the only Toastmasters International club in the world specializing in humor. He is a frequent interviewee for print media and national radio and TV programs on humor. He has performed stand-up comedy at conventions in Los Angeles, San Francisco, Reno, San Diego and at other comedy showcase venues.