Unfit Parent (LARGE PRINT EDITION): A Disabled Mother Challenges an Inaccessible World

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"A glorious, revelatory book."-Ed Yong, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and author of An Immense World A paradigm shifting look at the landscape of disabled parenting-the joys, stigma, and discrimination-and how disability culture holds the key to transforming the way we all raise our kids "A beautiful, transformative book about being a parent in a world that rejects frailty and weakness."-Rachel Aviv, staff writer at the New Yorker "A glorious, revelatory book."-Ed Yong, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and author of An Immense World A paradigm shifting look at the landscape of disabled parenting-the joys, stigma, and discrimination-and how disability culture holds the key to transforming the way we all raise our kids "A beautiful, transformative book about being a parent in a world that rejects frailty and weakness."-Rachel Aviv, staff writer at the New Yorker Jessica Slice's disability is exactly what her child needed as a newborn. After becoming disabled a handful of years prior from a shift in her autonomic nervous system, Jessica had done the hard work of disentangling her worth from productivity and learning how to prepare for an unpredictable and fragile world. Despite evidence to the contrary, nondisabled people and systems often worry that disabled people cannot keep kids safe and cared for, labeling disabled parents "unfit," but disabled parents and culture provide valuable lessons for rejecting societal rules that encourage perfectionism and lead to isolation. Blending her experience of becoming disabled in adulthood and later becoming a parent with interviews, social research, and disability studies, Slice describes what the landscape is like for disabled parents. From expensive or non-existent adaptive equipment to inaccessible healthcare and schools to the terror of parenting while disabled in public and threat of child protective services, Slice uncovers how disabled parents, out of necessity, must reject the rules and unrealistic expectations that all parents face. She writes about how disabled parents are often more prepared than nondisabled parents to navigate the uncertainty of losing control over bodily autonomy. In doing so, she highlights the joy, creativity, and radical acceptance that comes with being a disabled parent. While disabled parents have been omitted from mainstream parenting conversations, Slice argues that disabled bodies and minds give us the hopeful perspectives and solutions we need for transforming a societal system that has left parents exhausted, stuck, and alone.

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This is such a glorious, revelatory book. Jessica Slice cuts through all the judgment and stereotypes to reveal the truth: disabled people are, in many ways, uniquely suited to and skilled at parenthood and are sources of wisdom, ingenuity, courage, and joy that the entire world can learn from. I am a nondisabled man with no children and I gained so much from this book.
Ed Yong, Pulitzer Prizewinning journalist and author of An Immense World

Unfit Parent is a love letter to disabled parentingan impeccably researched, reported, and referenced love letteras well as an artfully drawn map of an exquisite, convivial society that can only be achieved with the creativity, skill, and joy of disabled people. Jessica Slice bends our beliefs about bodies and reorients us toward our need for one another, the messy beauty of our interconnectedness.
Angela Garbes, author of Essential Labor and Like a Mother

This vulnerable, insightful, and thoughtful book is a must-read for any parent seeking a map for how to care for their childrenwhile also caring for their own needswith creativity, community, and joy. It made me reflect on my own parenting and deeply held beliefs. A gift.
Rachel Somerstein, journalist and author of Invisible Labor: The Untold Story of the Cesarean Section

An absorbing portrayal of what its really like to be a disabled parent, including the shocking and understudied discrimination they face. In rigorously researched and open-hearted prose, Slice illuminates the joys and pains of disabled parenting, arriving at the crucial revelation: the skillset of being disabled is far from disqualifying and is, in fact, uniquely well-tuned to the demands of parenting. Unfit Parent is a fierce, compassionate, and unremittingly lucid book that Ill be returning to again and again.
Andrew Leland, Pulitzer Prizefinalist author of The Country of the Blind

A beautiful, transformative book about being a parent in a world that rejects frailty and weakness.
Rachel Aviv, staff writer at the New Yorker and author of Strangers to Ourselves: Unsettled Minds and the Stories That Make Us

Jessica Slices Unfit Parent challenges the narrative of what it means to parent in a world that wasnt designed for everyone. Powerful, necessary, and filled with raw honesty, the story of Jessicas lived experience as a disabled parent offers an invaluable perspective that will resonate with anyone who cares about inclusivity and accessibility. This book is a must-read for anyone who believes in a more compassionate and equitable world.
Alyssa Blask Campbell, CEO of Seed & Sew and author of Tiny Humans, Big Emotions

Jessica Slices story of disabled parenting will feel familiar to anyone who has been told their body is not enough or too much. Slices work deftly tells a deeply moving story, while grounding readers in the many ways ableism shows up in parenthood. Unfit Parent is a must-read for anyone committed to building a just and accessible world for parents and kids alike.
Aubrey Gordon, New York Times best-selling author and cohost of Maintenance Phase

Author Bio

Jessica Slice is a disabled mother, author, and essayist whose work has appeared in The New York Times's Modern Love column, in Alice Wong's bestselling Disability Visibility, The Washington Post, Glamour, and Cosmopolitan, among others. She is co-author, with Caroline Cupp, of Dateable- Swiping Right, Hooking Up, and Settling Down While Chronically Ill and Disabled and This is How We Play- A Celebration of Disability and Adaptation. Follow her online at jessicaslice.com.