Invincible: The 10 Lies You Learn Growing Up with Domestic Violence, and the Truths to Set You Free

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According to UNICEF, growing up with domestic violence is one of the most pervasive human rights violations in the world, affecting more than a billion people. Yet too few people are aware of the profound impact it can have. INVINCIBLE seeks to change this lack of awareness and understanding with a compelling look at this important issue, informing and inspiring anyone who grew up living with domestic violence - and those who love them, work with them, teach them and mentor them. Through powerful first-person stories, including the author's own experiences, as well as insightful commentary based on the most recent social science and psychology research, INVINCIBLE not only offers a deeper understanding of the concerns and challenges of those who grew up with domestic violence, but, also, provides proven strategies everyone can use to reclaim their lives and futures. "When you grow up living with domestic violence, witnessing those you love tear each other down with physical and verbal blows, your brain doesn't know how to deal with that."-from the foreword by Tony Robbins

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I have never shared the fact that I was a child of domestic violence. And, if I had not met Brian Martin, I dont know if I would have. What appeals to me most about Brians approach is that it is based on empowerment. Our experiences as children living with domestic violence have given us the equipmenta secret weapon, if you willto overcome all kinds of obstacles in our lives. It means we are not victims, we are victorious.
--Tony Robbins, bestselling author and Peal Performance strategist
Attention-grabbing and revealing, giving us insight into the world of CDV. It will be a valuable tool for our staff and New York Citys most vulnerable populationits children.
--Trevor M. Johns, acting associate commissioner, NYC Administration for Childrens Services
Martins kindness shines through this book. And though many purported self-help books often have the stench of the obviousHouse too cluttered Throw out stuff! Overweight Eat less, move more!Invincible has the air of honesty and hard work, and the feeling of someone who wants to help. It is not easy reading. It is not pleasant reading. But for anyone who grew up in a violent household, it could very well be the most important reading.
--NJ.com
After reading Invincible, I was struck by the sheer magnitude of children and adults whose lives are impacted by childhood domestic violence. The stories will touch your heart and make you aware of this huge crisis facing our children throughout the world.
--Marlene Lund, executive director, Center for Urban Education Ministries
Packed with inspirational stories of those who through courage and compassion have transformed their lives, this is a helpful book for anyone who grew up living with domestic violence. It shows that it is possible to overcome the obstacles of a childhood filled with violence and move forward.
--Stephen Joseph, Ph.D., author of What Doesnt Kill Us: The New Psychology of Posttraumatic Growth
Invincible can be a catalyst for change in the lives of millions who grew up living with domestic violence, as it gives them a compelling roadmap on the journey to heal and attain the lives they were always meant to have. It is a valuable resource that can renew their hope and guide them on the path to reaching their full potential.
--Caryl Stern, CEO of the U.S. Fund for UNICEF
Invincible is poignant, challenging, illuminating, and compassionateall at the same time. Brian does a fantastic job of illustrating points with real-life stories and a fresh perspective. The book goes way beyond describing the issue; it provides clear insight into the thinking and behavior patterns that result from these experiences.Readers are not alone.
--Chris Newlin, M.S., L.P.C., executive director, National Childrens Advocacy Center

Author Bio

Brian F. Martin grew up living with domestic violence. In 2007, he founded the Childhood Domestic Violence Association, an international charity dedicated to connecting and supporting anyone who grew up living with domestic violence. Brian and his work have been featured in The New York Times, USA Today and The Wall Street Journal. He has testified before Congress, appeared on national television programmes including Dr. Phil and produced the award-winning documentary The Children Next Door.