Things We Didn't Talk About When I Was a Girl

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Why would a good person commit a terrible act Fifteen years ago, Jeannie's relationship with a close friend ended in rape. With the rise of the #MeToo movement, recurring nightmares of the event that plagued her as a girl have returned. To process her conflicted feelings of betrayal and take back control, she resolves to face her trauma head-on by interviewing her rapist. Through their transcribed conversations and discussions with her closest friends, Jeannie's compelling memoir explores how the incident impacted both of their lives, while examining the culture and language surrounding sexual assault and rape. Things We Didn't Talk About When I Was a Girl is a necessary contribution to the wider conversation around sexual violence from a brave, new voice. What people are saying... 'Vanasco has written exactly the book we need right now. I wish everyone in would read it.' - Melissa Febos, author of Abandon Me 'Explodes rape culture at the level of language, shows us how we are trapped and how we might make ourselves free. This is a brilliant book, an astonishingly fierce inquiry into the places language won't go.' - Emily Geminder, author of Dead Girls 'Brave and compelling Vanasco muddles through the silt of her thoughts to create a language for something we don't talk about.' - The Paris Review, staff pick 'A powerful memoir... a painful reminder of the ugly ways some men treat women, and Vanasco's nuanced story will resonate with those who've endured sexual inappropriateness in any form.' - Publishers Weekly 'Cuts through the silence of deep betrayal, gives contour to the aching space between forgiveness and absolution, and offers a living testament to the endless wreckage of sexual assault.' - Amy Jo Burns, author of Cinderland AUTHOR: Jeannie Vanasco is the highly acclaimed author of My Father's Glass Eye. Her writing has appeared in the Times Literary Supplement, The New York Times and the New Yorker. She lives in Baltimore where she is an Assistant Professor of English at Towson University.

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'Cuts through the silence of deep betrayal, gives contour to the aching space between forgiveness and absolution, and offers a living testament to the endless wreckage of sexual assaultAmy Jo Burns, author of Cinderland

'Explodes rape culture at the level of language, shows us how we are trapped and how we might make ourselves free. This is a brilliant book, an astonishingly fierce inquiry into the places language won't go'Emily Geminder, author of Dead Girls

'Vanasco has written exactly the book we need right now. I wish everyone would read it'Melissa Febos, author of Abandon Me

'Brave and compelling... Vanasco muddles through the silt of her thoughts to create a language for something we dont talk about'Paris Review, staff pick

'Brave and urgent... a searching, brilliant book and Vanasco is a formidable talent. We are lucky to have her' Daniel Gumbiner, author of The Boatbuilder

'Wickedly clever and powerful... a necessary book'Krystal A. Sital

Author Bio

Jeannie Vanascois the highly acclaimed author of My Father's Glass Eye. Her writing has appeared in theTimes Literary Supplement, The New York Times, and theNew Yorker. She lives in Baltimore where she works as an Assistant Professor of English at Towson University.